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I need help please!
Mar 18 2012, 5:23 PM EDT
I have had a very tough life from childhood and as until now I still suffer from the same trouble all the name calling from childhood to adulthood. To add to this I have fallen in love with my straight friend and don't know what to do. He has a girlfriend who he's already in love with. I have prayed countless times to God to help me snap out of it but I still cannot get him out of my mind. I hurt so bad when I see him with women. I don't think that I will be able to deal with it so I have decided to give God's life back to him because it is hopeless and lovess and these are the pillars of life and if they are no more then I'll be a living dead. I should have died when I was younger by now my family would have gotten over it. I'm frustrated and depressed.
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1. RE: I need help please!
Mar 19 2012, 10:42 AM EDT
First out young man, who you fall in love with has nothing to do with living. Can you imagine if you met every soul that had the same characteristics as your friend? They are out there. You have allowed your fear to embellish your life with jealousy and envy. You cannot give God anything. What you should do is ask God for guidance and forgiveness. It is Him that have given you life and your family just happens to be the vessel for your journey. Whatever they need to get over, they will once they understand that your actions has nothing to do with them unless you involve them. Your happiness cannot be compromised because of someone else unhappiness with your decision to live as you know how to live. Get over yourself and live, being frustrated and depressed only feeds the souls of those who spend too much time in your business. Ask God for discernment and not riddance, He will never forsake you... no matter what you are or do, He already knows.... That's why I tell people, let the Lord take care of that...
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2. RE: I need help please!
Mar 19 2012, 6:23 PM EDT
Thanks. Last night when I was going to bed I felt bad for posting that I'll give Gods life back to him and I should pray for forgiveness. But it hurts so bad. If only I could forget him then I'll be free. Why should life be so complicated?
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