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marcdimart |
young and beautiful,but....
Oct 28 2009, 11:28 AM EDT
Hello everybody! Being a fervent fan of the beauty of black boys and men,it is unnerving to read about the scams that particularly older U.S. or E.U. men fall subject to by gangs of poor,desperate young boys in Ghana and elsewhere...Well,one always has to be careful in life,no?! One thing that I find difficult is,to find out if these boys are gay at all???!!! No sense to build a relationship with a guy who is hetero and usues you just to get ahead in life..Understandable maybe,but then it is better to go to an escort where there is no follow up..Anyway,as I am in the middle of a relationshipit puzzles me sometimes and i would like to know how others deal with this... Love to you all...
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hulivili5 |
1. RE: young and beautiful,but....
Nov 13 2009, 4:38 PM EST
That is very true, I have been chatting with two Ghanaian scammers, they are scammers cause the first of all they want money to be sent. This last one took a half a year that we were chatting and I did send him money a little. Then he found some one else to get money more, I guess so, and suddenly stopped chatting with me. I am not bitter with it but be ware these scammers who are searching older men from sll over the world.
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fakers2go |
2. Send us your info on scammers
Nov 16 2009, 4:17 AM EST
hulivili5 - if you send us the info you have on the scammers we will put them on our website to warn others about them.If we all work together on this we can make everyone aware of what is going on and try to shut the scammers down. fakers2go@yahoo.com Do you find this valuable? |
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neildoon |
3. RE: young and beautiful,but....
Nov 17 2009, 10:32 AM EST
"Hello everybody! Being a fervent fan of the beauty of black boys and men,it is unnerving to read about the scams that particularly older U.S. or E.U. men fall subject to by gangs of poor,desperate young boys in Ghana and elsewhere...Well,one always has to be careful in life,no?! One thing that I find difficult is,to find out if these boys are gay at all???!!! No sense to build a relationship with a guy who is hetero and usues you just to get ahead in life..Understandable maybe,but then it is better to go to an escort where there is no follow up..Anyway,as I am in the middle of a relationshipit puzzles me sometimes and i would like to know how others deal with this... Love to you all..."Hello, I am interested to learn how your relationship has developed and how long you have been in contact with your partner? I have also been in touch with a man from Ghana for the past 18 months and even though I have visited him on two occasions, I am still unsure of his true intentions. I have no real proof but I have been told, by one of his friends, quite innocently, during a conversation, that he has a girlfriend and hides this secret from me, for obvious reasons, I questioned my friend about this and he became quite aggressive, however, I quickly diffused the situation, preferring to keep things on an even keel until I returned back home. We have not had ANY physical contact at all and I know this may sound strange, but I respected the sociosexual reasons and their implications, therefore I relented. I had a great time whilst I was there, I met his family members and friends, they were incredibly friendly and I never felt threatened or intimidated at any time. I have supported him financially, quite considerably during this period, but I have reached a stalemate. I believe that my story is quite typical, but I do not want to become a statistic, I would rather cut things off NOW and move on than be left with a broken heart in the future?? 1 out of 1 found this valuable. Do you? |
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marcdimart |
4. RE: young and beautiful,but....
Nov 18 2009, 5:30 PM EST
Well Neil...My relationship still exsists,actually,i just came back today from visiting him...And it only added to my confusion)-: He is wonderful,kind and has a great sense of humour,but,at the back of my mind there is always this doubt...Sex comes mostly from me and he submits to it,i feel...Part of the deal??!! I am generous,he still goes to school and needs help,obviously.I am no fool,and tell him what I feel...The doubt is that it could be a cultural difference;black,white an age too... We are now "together" for 6 month and i simply adore and love him,so who cares....?! Well,I do,just as you say,if he isn't even gay,I would not continue,and he knows it.Just look on gayromeo,there are to tons of them out there,and certainly many not gay at all... I just don't want to be the "old" gay sucker,taken for a ride...lustfull and stupid..But then,maybe we are...?! Greetings from a tormented mind (-;
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ikaruga |
5. RE: Send us your info on scammers
Nov 21 2009, 12:44 PM EST
"hulivili5 - if you send us the info you have on the scammers we will put them on our website to warn others about them.this is exactly what i'm saying i'm not in any way belittling or worse denying marcdimart's experiences but people are just too eager to call someone a scammer and post his details online i'm a young black man in ghana and i would hate to see my name and pics on a site just cause i had a misunderstanding with some guy online 2 out of 2 found this valuable. Do you? |
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marcdimart |
6. RE: Send us your info on scammers
Dec 1 2009, 6:00 PM EST
"this is exactly what i'm sayingjust to set things clear,I am not in any way saying that "my" boy is a scammer! It is difficult to know the difference between gay and not,especially if it is a prolific business to act as one...but that is not a tipical ghanese problem ofcourse... Greetings,Ikaruga,love to hear yr opinion.. 1 out of 1 found this valuable. Do you? |
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jamesdoyle97 |
7. RE: Send us your info on scammers
Dec 14 2009, 10:57 AM EST
I have just returned from Ghana. A boy I have known for seven years set me up for the 'Police' scam.I have paid his way through University; I have helped him and his family many times over the years. Now, he tries to pretend someone else did it. Knock on the door, I was kidnapped and forced to go to ATM and withdraw 500$ Goodbye GHANA for ever..............Amen 0 out of 1 found this valuable. Do you? |
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marcdimart |
8. RE: Send us your info on scammers
Dec 15 2009, 9:32 AM EST
well well,that is quite a story..! Are you absolutely sure it was him? Must be a nightmare,after so many yrs of help and support... What is it that this happens so often in Ghana..as if they,deep down,loath us for being gay and think nothing of cheating and worse...could it be that all the negative input has an effect on them somehow...?! Like the gay bangers in europe(often young north africans,kicking against prejudice,groing up,oppressive parents and religion...?) Well,I need to digest your story...Take care and let not bitterness prevail...!! You have friends out here!!!!
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marcdimart |
9. RE: Send us your info on scammers
Dec 18 2009, 9:00 AM EST
mmmm,seems as if you got over it very soon already looking 4 a new 18-21 yr old uh?!(lonelyman...) What about your "goodbye ghana forever"?! U don't seem to me a serious person. Get the hell out of here,who wants you...
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