Is love a decision someone has to make? Should I decide first before loving a person? Isn’t it that love is not something that you decide upon but is something that comes naturally?
Well in my experience, yes…Love comes naturally,i never have to decide even making friends. though the feeling is there, you still have to decide if you’re going through with the whole process of loving that person. making your love be for that person.
MY LOVE STORY
I was 20years and fell in love with my then Hubby 22 years older than me, I had to make a decision... a BIG decision if I will act upon my love or will I set this one free? I guess if only the love is felt by both, like the person you like loves you too then the only decision to make is will you have the courage to take the chance with it. Once again, my answer would be yes.... OR just take the risk if you really have the "butterfly-in-the-gut" feeling towards that guy.Our first encounter was just a fling,i never tought it would be that serious,but after 4months of meeting several times,he asked me(if this isnt love then tell me what it is...and my answer was yes..its love....i didnt decide,i felt it,he will drive more than 200km from Obuase just to spend the weekend with me in accra,and the love just came,eventhough we are more than 1000miles apart now,i still love him because Its better to love and fall out of it than never love at all.