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| Nookn | Perceptions from outside looking in | 0 | Apr 9 2009, 7:52 PM EDT by Nookn | ||
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Thread started: Apr 9 2009, 7:52 PM EDT
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As an obroni who has found his Ghanaian soul mate 12 years ago, and entered into a relationship 6 years ago, can I offer my thoughts? Any foreigner wanting a lovely holiday to Ghana, visiting places of beauty, forrests, beaches, mountains, villages and festivals can have a wonderful time. It can be enjoyable and safe, provided you take some sensible precautions against maleria (insect repellant), pick-pockets or robbery from room (being smart how you dress and secure valuables) and your standard way of dealing with people (respectful and being a good negotiator with money matters such as buying things)
If you are looking for a sexual partner, then that is a whole new ball game. There is usually a huge learning curve for most foreighners to get their head around different values. It is very risky to come to Ghana thinking western values of 'easy, no obligation sex' is 'everywhere just for the asking'. It is not. Most gay men in Ghana prefer to take a long, getting to know you period, before intimatacy will be shared with you in a long-term exclusive relationship. A gay marriage is their goal. From my experience and observations over 23 years, most Ghanaians shun and reject casual sexual relations. Casual sex may occur but it is high risk behaviour for foreign tourists . Foreigners can easily fall prey to opportunists, leaving themselves open to grave risks such as imprisonment, blackmail, and exposure in the local media, if they do not understand this. Therefore, for a brief holiday to Ghana, it's best to keep sex off the menu. |
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| errebe | Would be nice to read different opinions... | 2 | Mar 20 2009, 2:13 PM EDT by errebe | ||
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Thread started: Mar 19 2009, 7:49 AM EDT
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I've been planning a trip to Ghana for some time now. Had to cancel a couple of times though, because of work, no other reason. I had a chance to meet online quite a few ghanaians in some internet gay sites like gayromeo and gaydar.
Well I can't tell how many contacts I made.. a lot... for almost most of them I have the feeling the guys just looking something in exchange... I don't count here obvious scammers, fakers, money seekers, gang bands (they even threatened me), etc. As a whole, I just met a couple of guys with who I stay more or less in touch. I must say, ok we all are gay, we all like sex... but that's not my main motivation to go there. I am curious about country and culture and people, and want to learn. And I would like to have gay friends there. Whatever happens in bed, who knows. I have a healthy sex life here, so I don't need to go crazy for that. On the other side, I see many foreigners, mostly europeans, looking for the stereotypical big black this and big black that, thinking people are just pieces of meat they can buy. And taking advantage of their economical position, much stronger than most of the ghanaians have there. From my point of view, this is specially disgusting. Ok as all we are humans beings, we are all the same, same kind of people, good people, bad people, in Europe, in Africa, everywhere, and will be like that when the Human kind moves to the Moon. I am specially curious to know how do gay ghanaians see us foreigners going there. Do you gay ghanaians think we are all cheap sex seekers...? |
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